big fat mouths

big fat mouths.

when you say something,
sincerely or not,
it means something.
even if it was a joke,
you somehow believed in it that
you got to crack it out as a joke.
that is why they say that jokes are half - meant.

the bad thing about speaking
is that you can't take back
whatever you've said.
it's gone in the seconds that just ticked by.
if it was good, then you've influenced people
to think better and to be proactive.

if it was bad, you may have hurt people
without knowing it and yet
you can't do anything about it.
they may have misunderstood what you
said and looked at it from a different perspective
but it is your fault since you spoke those words.
you gave an oppurtunity for those words to
hurt someone's feelings.
the more it sucks when the hurt one is
your friend.

that is an example of a big fat mouth.
we can't avoid it.
sometimes, we don' get a hold of
ourselves enough and just blurt out
what comes to mind.
it is really important to think of what you're
gonna say first before actually saying them.

it doesn't take so long.
don't take so long, you might not be able
to speak all your life. that's taking your right
to free speech for granted.
just take a second and think.
that ought to do the trick.

but, if the damage is done. it is.
time heals but the scars remain. too bad.

i did something bad today.
it's not like i don't everyday.
i hurt a friend's feelings.
i'm really sorry but i know it's my fault.

bad me.